The Problem with BoundariesThe Problem with Boundaries
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Sometimes setting boundaries in your relationship can have a positive impact. But most times, boundaries build a wall between you and your partner that sabotages your relationship further. In today’s episode, I’m talking about the dark...
21:33•2 Apr 2020
Rethinking Boundaries: Bob Gardner on Building Stronger Relationships
Episode Overview
- Bob shares a compelling story of a king who realized the limitations of boundaries
- Challenges the conventional wisdom of setting boundaries in relationships
- Advocates for embracing vulnerability and seeking deeper union with partners
- Offers personal insights and experiences to navigate the complexities of human connection
- Encourages dissolving boundaries to unlock true freedom and intimacy
“If you or someone you know is looking to drop the F-bomb of freedom in your life, whether that's from addiction or depression and anxiety or just anything that's making you feel flat out stuck, but you have no clue how to shake it and just want help doing it.”
Ever felt like setting boundaries in your relationship was supposed to help, but somehow it made things worse? In this episode, Bob Gardner flips the script on the conventional wisdom about boundaries. Through a captivating story about a king who built walls around his palace only to become a prisoner, Bob explores the often overlooked downside of setting boundaries. Instead of creating distance, he argues for dissolving these barriers to foster deeper connection and intimacy.
He dives into practical advice on how to break free from the mental prisons we build for ourselves and how being 'selfish' in the right way can actually save your relationship. If you're grappling with how to navigate boundaries without causing more harm than good, Bob's insights might just change your perspective.

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