James Swanwick
James Swanwick
They Would Have Loved Me Quietly—And Let Me Go Slowly - Victoria English
They Would Have Loved Me Quietly—And Let Me Go Slowly - Victoria English
They Would Have Loved Me Quietly—And Let Me Go Slowly - Victoria English
Monday 19th May 2025
Victoria English shares her story of overcoming alcohol's quiet grip and rediscovering life's true joys.
17 minutes
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Sobriety Toolkit
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Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Alcohol's subtle erosion of relationships can go unnoticed.
- Sobriety is an investment in personal growth and future joy.
- Neuroplasticity allows the brain to heal and form new pathways.
- Quitting alcohol involves emotional clarity and identity rebuilding.
- Trusting oneself is key to restoring family connections.
"I was slowly becoming someone who wasn't fully in her own life."
Victoria English shares her heartfelt journey in this episode of the Alcohol-Free Lifestyle podcast, exploring the quiet but powerful impact alcohol had on her life. As a high performer, she found herself slowly losing touch with her loved ones, not through dramatic events, but through a subtle erosion of trust and connection. Victoria recounts how alcohol became a socially acceptable sedative, offering short-term relief but demanding more than it gave, leading to a sense of spiralling emptiness.
Her story isn't just about quitting alcohol; it's about reclaiming life. Victoria reflects on the profound changes that came with sobriety, from the uncomfortable clarity of emotions to the miraculous neuroplasticity that allowed her brain to form new pathways. She describes how quitting alcohol felt less like a heroic act and more like a messy, private journey of identity collapse and rebuilding. The emotional rawness and cravings were signs of healing, as Victoria learned to trust herself again.
Her family relationships improved, with her children recognising the real her. Victoria emphasises the investment sobriety is for high achievers, likening it to other life investments that yield long-term rewards. Victoria's story is a testament to the power of staying alcohol-free and the joy of rediscovering oneself. If you're in that foggy place, wondering about your relationship with alcohol, this episode offers a compassionate reminder that you're not broken—you're being rebuilt.
It's an invitation to embrace the discomfort and stay with yourself, as you might find moments of true joy and connection waiting on the other side.