Steps 8 & 9: The Journey of Making Amends with Audrey C. & Mike K.
Episode Overview
Steps 8 and 9 focus on making amends to those harmed. Sponsorship is crucial for guidance through these steps. Honesty and humility are key when making amends. Spiritual momentum builds as one progresses through the steps. Following Big Book directions can lead to profound personal growth.
If I don't get free and clear by admitting my wrongs honestly, attempting to sweep up my side of the street with zero regard to what you do, your reaction, what you've done in the past, I will never get over drinking
In this episode of Sober Cast, Audrey C. and Mike K. take you through a fascinating workshop on Steps 8 and 9 of the Alcoholics Anonymous programme. Recorded in Dallas in 2010, this session dives into the intricacies of making amends and the crucial role of sponsorship in the recovery journey. Audrey, the main speaker, offers a heartfelt and detailed explanation of these steps, starting from page 76 of the Big Book.
She emphasises the importance of making a comprehensive list of people harmed and the necessity of seeking guidance from a sponsor to navigate this challenging process. Audrey's candid reflections highlight the need for action and the spiritual momentum that builds as one progresses through the steps. She shares personal anecdotes about the difficulties and rewards of making amends, illustrating how this process can lead to profound personal growth and freedom from past burdens.
The episode also touches on the importance of honesty and humility when approaching those who have been wronged, and how to handle situations where making direct amends might cause more harm than good. By following the clear and precise directions from the Big Book, Audrey explains how one can achieve a sense of peace and fulfilment that was previously sought through alcohol.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of Steps 8 and 9, whether they are in recovery themselves or supporting someone who is.