Tough conversations and anticipatory grief: being a carerTough conversations and anticipatory grief: being a carer
All In The Mind
When Casey Beros' dad was diagnosed with mesothelioma, she knew her entire world would change. More than three million Australians are carers — a role people are often thrust into without any kind of map. So based on her own experience, Casey wrote one. On All in the Mind this week, what it takes to be a carer for a loved one. How to get through the tough conversations and difficult moments — from giving bad news to talking about voluntary assisted dying — and still come out the other end in one piece. Guest: Casey Beros Health journalist Author, Next of Kin Credits: Presenter/producer: Sana Qadar Senior producer: James Bullen Producer: Rose Kerr Sound engineer: Roi Huberman You can catch up on more episodes of the All in the Mind podcast with journalist and presenter Sana Qadar, exploring the psychology of topics like stress, memory, communication and relationships on ABC Listen or wherever you get your podcasts.
29:36•21 Mar 2026
The Journey of Becoming a Carer: Casey Beros' Story
Episode Overview
- Balancing caregiving with personal life is crucial.
- Compassionate communication can ease difficult conversations.
- Community support is invaluable for carers.
- Grief is unpredictable and personal.
- Practical advice can help manage caregiving challenges.
“"Grief doesn't follow anybody's rules or anybody's timeframe. It does what it does, and we are simply along for the ride."”
What drives someone to step into the role of a carer? Casey Beros shares her deeply personal journey of becoming a carer for her father after his mesothelioma diagnosis. In this heartwarming episode, Casey opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of anticipatory grief and the tough conversations that come with caring for a loved one facing terminal illness. She candidly discusses the challenges of balancing her family life with her new responsibilities and how she navigated those demanding times.
With a mix of personal stories and practical advice, Casey provides insights into delivering and receiving difficult news, highlighting the importance of compassion and honesty. Her experience led her to pen a book that serves as both a memoir and a guide for those in similar situations. Through her story, you'll find inspiration in resilience and the power of community support. If you're curious about what it truly means to be a carer, this episode is a must-listen.
How do we support our loved ones while taking care of ourselves? Dive into Casey's journey to find out.

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