Narcissists Posing as Empaths: The Double Illusion
Episode Overview
Narcissists often see themselves as empaths, creating a double illusion. They use perceived empathy as a tool for manipulation. Genuine empathy involves consistent respect and emotional understanding. Narcissists distort reality to suit their narrative. Understanding these tactics can help in healing from narcissistic abuse.
A narcissist’s belief in their own empathy often serves as a protective mask, shielding their true nature.
Ever wondered how a narcissist could possibly see themselves as an empath? It sounds like a contradiction, right? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a certified clinical trauma specialist, breaks down the baffling phenomenon of narcissists who genuinely believe they are empathetic. You'll explore how these individuals create a double illusion - first, by seeing themselves as superior to others, and second, by falsely identifying as empaths.
Danish uses real-life examples to illustrate how narcissists weaponise empathy to manipulate and control those around them. For instance, they might act disrespectfully towards someone but then leave a generous tip, believing this act makes them empathetic. Danish explains that genuine empathy goes beyond mere actions; it involves consistent respect and emotional understanding, which narcissists lack. This episode also highlights how narcissists use their perceived empathy to extract sensitive information from others, only to use it for manipulation later.
Danish’s compassionate yet straightforward approach helps you understand these complex behaviours and provides insights into healing from such toxic relationships. If you've ever felt confused or doubted your experiences with a narcissist, this episode offers clarity and support. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how narcissists distort reality and learn how to protect yourself from their manipulative tactics.