Tanner Keegan Read

Retrieving Sanity

Tanner Keegan Read

  • Why Relationships are a Paradox with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Why Relationships are a Paradox with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Friday 20th February 2026

Explore relationship paradoxes with Dr. Bruce Chalmer on Retrieving Sanity. Learn how contradictions can strengthen connections.
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Retrieving Sanity
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Tanner Keegan Read
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Recovery Reimagined
Family Recovery from Addiction
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Body & Mind
Financial Health in Recovery
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The Paradox of Relationships: Insights with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Episode Overview

  • Understanding the paradox between intimacy and stability is key to healthy relationships.
  • Faith and trust are essential in both relationships and recovery.
  • Gratitude can enhance connection and reduce anxiety.
  • Self-awareness helps manage emotions effectively.
  • Facing contradictions can lead to personal growth.
If you're only one, it doesn't work. If you're only separate, it doesn't work. You kind of need both, even though they're contradictory.
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This episode of Retrieving Sanity dives into the intricate dance of relationships with Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a renowned therapist and author. The conversation unpacks the paradoxical nature of love and stability, challenging the idea that these elements are always harmonious. Dr. Chalmer shares his insights on how embracing contradictions can lead to stronger connections.
With a touch of humour, he discusses the importance of tolerating anxiety and maintaining faith in both relationships and recovery. Dr. Chalmer brings his new book, 'The Passion Paradox,' into the spotlight, explaining why intimacy and stability often seem at odds yet are crucial for a thriving relationship. He draws parallels between relationship dynamics and addiction recovery, highlighting how both require a balance of predictability and the willingness to face uncertainty.
Listeners are treated to practical advice on self-awareness, emotional management, and the role of gratitude in relationships. Dr. Chalmer's engaging style makes complex psychological concepts accessible, leaving you with plenty to ponder about your own relationships and recovery journey. Whether you're in recovery or simply looking to deepen your understanding of human connections, this episode offers valuable lessons. It’s a reminder that life's contradictions can be the very things that keep us growing and moving forward.
How do you handle the paradoxes in your life? Tune in to find out how embracing them might just be the key to unlocking deeper connections.
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