Surviving 'Stressmas': Holiday Tips for Abuse Survivors and Their Kids
Episode Overview
Explore the unique challenges faced by abuse victims and survivors during the holiday season Discover valuable insights into setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care Learn about building a support system during 'Stressmas' Gain essential tips for navigating the emotional challenges of the festive season Understand the tactics abusers may use to intensify stress during the holidays
As the festive spirit envelops many, those navigating abuse often find themselves in heightened stress, facing tactics from their abusers that intensify during this time.
The holiday season, often filled with joy and celebration, can be a nightmare for those who have experienced emotional abuse. In this episode of The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast, host Allison K. Dagney tackles the unique challenges faced by abuse survivors during what she dubs 'Stressmas'. With her background as a survivor and certified Rapid Reprogramming™ Coach, Allison offers a wealth of practical advice to help navigate this tricky time of year.
Allison begins by addressing the intensified stress that abuse victims often face during the holidays. Abusers may ramp up their tactics, making an already difficult time even more challenging, especially in co-parenting situations. She dives into the common hurdles faced by survivors, from setting boundaries to dealing with manipulative behavior, and provides actionable tips to manage these situations. One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of prioritizing self-care.
Allison emphasizes that taking care of yourself isn't just a luxury—it's a necessity, especially when you're under additional stress. She shares strategies for carving out 'me time' amidst the chaos and underscores the value of building a robust support system. For those with children, the episode offers specific advice on protecting kids from abusive dynamics while still creating positive holiday memories.
Allison discusses ways to shield children from the emotional fallout and maintain a sense of normalcy and joy during the festivities. If you're worried about how to get through the holidays without falling apart, this episode is a must-listen. Allison's empathetic approach and expert insights make it an invaluable resource for anyone looking to turn 'Stressmas' into a more manageable Christmas.