068: Interview with Melissa Vogel from the Bomb Mom Podcast068: Interview with Melissa Vogel from the Bomb Mom Podcast
You're Sober! Now What?
Fitness coach and mum Melissa Vogel shares how hitting a low point after pregnancy led her to rebuild her health through mindset, routine and community. The conversation focuses on practical steps busy mothers can take to care for their bodies and self‑belief without chasing quick fixes.
47:58•28 Dec 2020
From Busy to Bomb: Melissa Vogel on Fitness, Mindset and Starting Again
Episode Overview
- Mindset starts with noticing what you say to yourself in the mirror and replacing harsh criticism with more supportive self‑talk.
- Treat health habits like non‑negotiable appointments: consistent wake times, simple morning routines and scheduled workouts build trust with your body.
- Lifting weights and resistance training are key for long‑term strength and leanness, especially for women over 25, and won’t automatically make legs or arms “bigger”.
- Big, lasting changes come from small, repeated actions like daily walks and “I don’t feel like it” reps, rather than quick fixes or short challenges.
- Supportive communities and coaching, similar to recovery groups, help people stay accountable and move past the urge to “do it alone”.
“Moms don’t have time. We make time.”
What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? For many people, it’s hearing from someone who’s juggling real-life chaos and still choosing to show up for themselves every day. That’s exactly what happens as fitness coach and Bomb Mom Podcast host Melissa Vogel chats with Tamar Medford about health, mindset, and life after hitting a personal low.
Melissa talks openly about gaining 65 pounds after her third baby, having her stomach hit her thighs during a workout, and breaking down on the basement floor. That was her turning point: “It’s not until women make the connection of where ‘I should do this’ becomes a must.” From there, she slowly rebuilt her routines and eventually created her Busy to Bomb Fit Mom programme.
You’ll hear why she believes mindset is non‑negotiable, starting with a simple question: what do you say to yourself in the mirror? Many of her clients realise they’ve been tearing themselves down for years. Melissa shares how she uses affirmations, sticky notes, and even a dry‑erase board with the phrase “It is possible” to retrain her thinking. For mums who insist they have no time, Melissa’s blunt: “Moms don’t have time.
We make time.” She breaks down her own routine of early mornings, yoga on the bedroom floor, consistent breakfasts, and treating gym sessions like business meetings she never cancels. The conversation also touches on lifting heavy weights without fear of getting “bulky”, the power of walking every day for a week, community support that feels a bit like AA for fitness, and how slow, steady change over years beats any six‑week quick fix.
If you’re in recovery, parenting, or just feeling stuck in a body you don’t recognise, this chat might be the nudge that reminds you change is possible—one small, slightly uncomfortable step at a time. What’s the first tiny habit you’re ready to commit to today?

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