331. When your family are big drinkers with Shelley HIQA Grad

331. When your family are big drinkers with Shelley HIQA Grad

How I quit alcohol

Shelley shares her experience of navigating a family Christmas without alcohol, offering practical tips and insights for staying sober during festive gatherings.

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12:246 Dec 2025

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Facing Christmas Sober: Shelley's Inspiring Journey

Episode Overview

  • Prepare with a variety of non-alcoholic drink options.
  • Use special glasses and rituals to feel included.
  • Have a support person on standby for challenging moments.
  • Communicate openly with family about your sobriety.
  • Embrace meaningful conversations and memories.
"When I woke up on Boxing Day and knew that I had just done Christmas day sober, that box is ticked."

Experience the emotional and inspiring tales of recovery as Shelley, a graduate of the How I Quit Alcohol programme, shares her journey through her first alcohol-free Christmas. For many, the festive season is synonymous with indulgence, making it a challenging time for those in recovery. Shelley, who has been sober for 16 months, recounts her experience navigating a family gathering where most were big drinkers.

With over 20 adults present, Shelley faced the challenge head-on, armed with an arsenal of non-alcoholic beverages and a resolve to enjoy the festivities without alcohol. Shelley highlights the importance of preparation and having a variety of drink options to feel included in the celebrations. From mocktails to chilled teas, she made sure to have something special in hand. She also shares how small rituals, like using special glasses and carrying essential oils, helped her stay calm and focused.

Despite initial nerves, Shelley found joy in meaningful conversations and cherished memories without the haze of alcohol. This episode is a testament to the power of community and self-awareness. Shelley emphasises the significance of having a support person on standby and being open about one's journey with family members. Her story is not just about abstaining from alcohol but about reclaiming the festive spirit and finding new ways to celebrate.

So, what are your strategies for staying sober during the holidays? Whether you're looking for tips or just need a dose of inspiration, Shelley's story offers both.

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