390 \\ What if your drinking isn't about alcohol at all? What if it's about not wanting to feel what you're feeling?390 \\ What if your drinking isn't about alcohol at all? What if it's about not wanting to feel what you're feeling?
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Michelle Porterfield talks about how alcohol can become an escape from difficult emotions rather than the real issue. She invites Christian women to notice what they’re feeling, bring it to God, and choose healthier ways to cope instead of reaching for a drink.
18:51•10 Sept 2026
Is Your Drinking Just Avoiding Your Feelings?
Episode Overview
- Drinking may be less about alcohol itself and more about avoiding feelings like anger, loneliness or overwhelm.
- Unprocessed childhood experiences and core beliefs such as “I’m not enough” can drive the urge to escape through alcohol.
- Learning to notice body sensations and stay with uncomfortable emotions helps break the drink–regret cycle.
- Simple tools like walking, movement, crying or honest prayer can release emotional pressure more safely than drinking.
- Honesty with yourself and with God is presented as key to becoming the woman you feel called to be, without relying on alcohol.
“What if the drink isn't the thing you want? What if you want to NOT FEEL?”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? This episode centres on a simple but confronting idea: maybe the problem isn’t the wine glass, it’s the feelings you’re trying to dodge. Christian women who keep ending up in the “drink, regret, repeat” loop will feel seen here.
Michelle Porterfield speaks frankly about her own history of stuffing emotions down, saying she spent much of her life just “toughing it out” and staying busy rather than noticing how she actually felt. From stress and loneliness to anger and resentment, she explains how these unprocessed emotions can quietly push you towards alcohol as an escape hatch. You’ll hear Michelle ask, “What if the drink isn't the thing you want?
What if you want to NOT FEEL?” She breaks down how core beliefs like “I’m not enough” or “I’m too much” can sit under everyday triggers – a snappy comment from a partner, a rough day at work, constant overwhelm – and how reaching for a drink offers temporary relief without touching the real pain. The episode leans heavily into emotional awareness, body sensations, and faith.
Michelle talks about learning to stay with uncomfortable feelings, noticing tightness in your chest or gut, and bringing that honestly to God rather than running to the bottle or your phone. She shares simple, practical tools such as taking a walk, doing a few jumping jacks, or having a private cry to let emotions move through instead of getting stuck.
You’ll also get a taste of the kind of sisterhood she’s building: honest conversation, gentle humour, and a reminder that you don’t have to fix everything overnight. If drinking feels less like fun and more like escape, could it be time to ask what you’re really trying not to feel?
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