#67 The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing in Your Relationship with Dr Robert Glover#67 The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing in Your Relationship with Dr Robert Glover
Call To Courage Podcast
Dr Robert Glover discusses the hidden costs of people-pleasing in men's relationships, offering practical advice for expressing needs and reclaiming personal power.
1:17:58•24 Nov 2025
Men, People-Pleasing, and the Hidden Costs: A Conversation with Dr Robert Glover
Episode Overview
- Men often struggle to express their needs, leading to loneliness.
- Covert contracts create silent resentment in relationships.
- People-pleasing can deplete personal energy and affect health.
- 'Unapologetically You Playbook' offers steps to overcome people-pleasing.
- Recognising and integrating patterns is crucial for healthier relationships.
“It's surprisingly hard for men to know what it is that they even want.”
Ever wondered why so many men feel unseen and lonely despite seemingly doing everything right? Dr Robert Glover returns to the Call To Courage Podcast to tackle the hidden cost of people-pleasing in relationships. With hosts Gareth Pickering and Matt Dahse, this episode is a no-holds-barred conversation about the covert contracts that keep men trapped in silent resentment and emotional isolation. Dr Glover, known for his book 'No More Mr.
Nice Guy,' shares practical insights into why men struggle to express their needs and how this impacts their relationships. He discusses the painful effects of not prioritising one's own needs and the shame surrounding masculine desires. The episode doesn't just stop at identifying the problem; it offers solutions like the 'Unapologetically You Playbook,' a resource designed to help men stop people-pleasing and start leading fulfilling lives.
The discussion also touches on how people-pleasing manifests in various aspects of life, including friendships and intimate relationships, and why it's crucial to recognise and integrate these patterns for a healthier life. Curious about how men can reclaim their power and improve their relationships? Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that's both practical and engaging.

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