AFG Step Study---Step 9

AFG Step Study---Step 9

In this episode of Recovery Radio Network, Sue D. from the Yorba Linda CA, AFG Gottawanna group, shares her heartfelt experiences and wisdom on Step 9 of the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) program. Step 9 is all about making direct amends to those we've harmed, except when doing so would cause further injury. Sue's approach to this step is both practical and deeply personal, emphasising the importance of timing and readiness in the process of making amends.

Sue discusses how Step 9 is not just about saying sorry but about genuinely repairing relationships where possible. She highlights the critical distinction between 'whenever' and 'wherever' in the context of making amends, stressing that it's about finding the right moment and place to make things right. Sue shares a poignant story about a woman she sponsored who wanted to reveal a long-kept secret to her child's father, illustrating the potential pitfalls of making amends without considering the broader impact.

Through anecdotes and examples, Sue explains how making amends has brought her peace of mind and helped her move past guilt. She recounts her own journey of writing letters and having difficult conversations, sometimes with surprising outcomes. Sue also touches on the importance of involving sponsors in this step to ensure that amends are made thoughtfully and appropriately. Sue's candid reflections offer valuable lessons for anyone working through the twelve steps or supporting someone who is.

Her stories are filled with honesty, humour, and a deep understanding of the complexities involved in making amends. If you're looking for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement on your recovery journey, this episode is a must-listen.