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The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci

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  • Answering Lisa’s question on dealing with enablers and flying monkeys to her narc father in law

Answering Lisa’s question on dealing with enablers and flying monkeys to her narc father in law

Friday 2nd February 2024

Adriana Bucci offers insights on dealing with narcissistic in-laws and their enablers, providing advice on setting boundaries and protecting your family.
17 minutes
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The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci
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Recovery from Trauma
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How to Handle Narcissistic In-Laws and Their Enablers

Episode Overview

  • Setting firm boundaries is crucial when dealing with toxic family members.
  • Recognise enablers as part of the problem, not just the abuser.
  • The shame-rage cycle is a common reaction among narcissists.
  • Going no contact can be a healthy choice for protecting your family.
  • Prioritise your chosen family over maintaining toxic relationships.
"Being old does not justify abuse, and this is the thing with narcissistic parents."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? Adriana Bucci tackles the complex dynamics of dealing with narcissistic in-laws in this compelling episode. Lisa's story takes centre stage as she and her husband face the fallout of going no contact with his narcissistic parents, who have been verbally abusive to their children. The twist? Family members acting as 'flying monkeys'—enablers who justify the abuse and pressure them to reconcile.
Adriana shares her thoughts on handling these toxic dynamics, providing practical advice on setting boundaries and protecting one's family from further harm. You'll learn about the shame-rage cycle common in narcissists and how enablers can be just as toxic as the abuser. With humour and empathy, Adriana encourages listeners to see the importance of safeguarding their chosen family over maintaining toxic relationships.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with similar family dynamics, offering not just support but actionable steps to reclaim control and peace in their lives. How do you protect your loved ones while navigating these tricky family waters?
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