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Avoidant attachment vs narcissists with Ken Reid
Avoidant attachment vs narcissists with Ken Reid
Avoidant attachment vs narcissists with Ken Reid
Wednesday 29th May 2024
Explore the differences between avoidant attachment and narcissistic behaviours with Adriana Bucci and Ken Reid.
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Episode Overview
- Avoidant attachers control intimacy levels, not people.
- Narcissists seek supply and control over others.
- Emotional work is crucial for changing attachment styles.
- Recognising unhealthy patterns aids in healing.
- Personal growth is essential for healthier relationships.
"Avoidant attachers aren't looking to control you; they're looking to control the amount of time, energy, space, intimacy they share."
Get ready to be moved by real-life accounts of navigating the murky waters of avoidant attachment and narcissism in relationships. In this episode, Adriana Bucci sits down with Australian counsellor Ken Reid to unpack the complex dynamics of avoidant attachment styles versus narcissistic behaviours. Ken shares his expertise in helping clients through relationship struggles, breakups, and attachment-related challenges, bringing clarity to these often misunderstood topics.
Ken explains that while both avoidant attachers and narcissists can exhibit similar behaviours, their motivations differ. Avoidant attachers seek to control the amount of intimacy they share, not the person, often due to a subconscious fear of rejection and abandonment. In contrast, narcissists are driven by a need for supply and control over others, often using manipulation intentionally. The conversation touches on the emotional turmoil faced by those involved with avoidant attachers or narcissists.
Ken highlights the importance of self-awareness and emotional work for those with insecure attachment styles, emphasising that change is possible but requires time and effort. The episode is packed with insights into recognising unhealthy patterns and the significance of personal growth in healing from such relationships. So, if you're curious about how attachment styles affect relationships or seeking to understand the nuances between avoidant behaviours and narcissism, this episode is a must-listen.
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