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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
The relational impossibility with people with Borderline Personality Disorder is about them - NOT YOU! It's time to respect yourself, get into therapy to heal and recover and go and stay no contact. It's time to find you again. The breakup was not...
28:03•15 Dec 2022
Coping with BPD Breakups: Insights on Ghosting, Discards, and Hoovers
“The relational impossibility with people with Borderline Personality Disorder is about them - NOT YOU! It's time to respect yourself, get into therapy to heal and recover and go and stay no contact. You are not at fault or to blame.”
Ever felt completely lost after a breakup with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, Counsellor A.J. Mahari dives deep into the chaotic world of BPD relationships, shedding light on the emotional rollercoaster that comes with ghosting, discards, and hoovering. If you've ever been on the receiving end of these behaviors, you know how confusing and painful they can be.
But Mahari is here to remind you that it's not about you—it's about them. She emphasizes the importance of self-respect and the need to go no contact to truly begin your healing journey. From dealing with silent treatments to overcoming the agony of breakups, Mahari offers practical advice and heartfelt encouragement. She stresses the value of therapy and setting firm boundaries as key steps to reclaiming your life.
Whether you're struggling with cognitive dissonance or just looking for some closure, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate the rocky terrain of BPD breakups. Tune in for a compassionate guide to finding yourself again and taking those crucial steps towards recovery.

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