Chris L – What are we deciding to do when we take Step Three?Chris L – What are we deciding to do when we take Step Three?
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Chris Got sober at 37 years oldNow sober 24 years
4:12•19 Sept 2020
Taking the Leap: Chris L on Step Three in Recovery
Episode Overview
- Chris got sober at age 37 and has maintained sobriety for 24 years.
- Step Three involves surrendering control to a higher power.
- Attending 90 meetings in 90 days helped Chris stay committed.
- The decision to continue with the spiritual programme was transformative.
- Chris's leap of faith led him into Step Four and beyond.
“You get to the edge of the cliff and you don't know what's going to happen. And I jumped.”
Chris L's journey through recovery is a tale of courage, faith, and a sprinkle of humour that makes you ponder what Step Three in Alcoholics Anonymous truly means. Getting sober at 37, Chris now boasts 24 years of sobriety, sharing his experiences and the pivotal moment when he decided to hand over his will to a higher power. In this episode, Chris candidly recounts his struggles with managing life while drinking – losing grip on relationships, work, and parenting.
The realisation that alcohol was never the solution but rather the problem itself led him to admit defeat and embrace the hope offered by Step Two. Step Three posed a unique challenge for Chris. He faced hesitation and uncertainty about surrendering his life to a God of his understanding. Yet, it was the guilt and remorse weighing heavily on him that nudged him forward.
Chris talks about attending 90 meetings in 90 days, finding a sponsor, and engaging with fellow AA members, only to find that these steps weren't enough without the deeper commitment that Step Three demands. With humour and honesty, Chris describes his leap of faith as standing on the edge of a cliff and jumping without knowing what lay beneath. His decision to continue with the spiritual programme was transformative, leading him into Step Four and beyond.
This episode offers a glimpse into the inner workings of recovery, reminding you that surrendering control can be both terrifying and liberating. Whether you're curious about AA's steps or seeking inspiration from someone who's walked the path, Chris's story is a testament to the power of faith and community in overcoming addiction. Ready to take your own leap of faith?

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