Lee Davy
Lee Davy
Drunk Sex and the Death of Integrity: What Real Men Do
Drunk Sex and the Death of Integrity: What Real Men Do
Drunk Sex and the Death of Integrity: What Real Men Do
Thursday 19th June 2025
Explore how sobriety can reclaim integrity in moments of high emotion and chaos in this powerful episode with Lee Davy.
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Lee Davy
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Sobriety Toolkit
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
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Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
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Episode Overview
- Alcohol plays a significant role in sexual assaults.
- Sobriety is key to maintaining integrity and leadership.
- Drunk sex is often expected but leads to chaos.
- Capacity is more important than consent when intoxicated.
- Living self-led means choosing clarity over chemistry.
When desire flares and your inhibitions drop, who's in charge? Self or parts?
In this episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, Lee Davy takes a deep dive into the challenging intersection of alcohol, desire, and integrity. He addresses a hard-hitting truth: 75% of sexual assaults involve alcohol, and most perpetrators are men under the influence. This is not just a coincidence but a crisis that demands attention. Lee explores how alcohol can hijack one's integrity, especially in moments of high emotion and low inhibition, leading to chaos rather than intimacy.
With a mix of personal anecdotes and broader societal insights, Lee calls for real leadership through sobriety, emphasising that staying sober is not about policing men but about showing them a better way—a self-led way. Lee challenges men to reflect on their integrity when alcohol is involved, questioning what happens when desire overshadows conscience. He shares his experiences growing up in a culture where drunk sex was expected and rarely questioned.
The podcast urges men to hold the line of integrity, highlighting that when both parties are intoxicated, chaos ensues, not connection. This episode isn't just about consent; it's about capacity. Lee passionately argues that strivers choose sobriety because they understand the rapid descent into chaos that alcohol can cause. He advocates for living a self-led life with clarity over chemistry, urging listeners to model restraint, presence, and respect.
Lee leaves listeners with questions to ponder: Have you ever crossed a line because you lost yourself? What would it look like to stay present and fully self-led? The podcast is an invitation for men to stop reacting and start responding, learning to lead without alcohol as a crutch. Tune in to discover how ditching the booze can uncover a superpower, empowering you to respect yourself and others from a place of integrity.
It's a call to action for anyone wanting to live a life free from the chaos that alcohol can create.