Emily White: Finding Connection in a Lonely World
I think not getting what you need from that social situation. But I think we're growing lonelier as a society, and that's part of the reason I wanted to write count me in, which is my second book about connection, to see what can we do about that.
Feeling alone in a crowded room? You're not the only one. In this episode of 'The One You Feed', host Eric Zimmer chats with Emily White, a former lawyer turned writer, who knows a thing or two about loneliness. Emily is the author of *Lonely: Learning to Live with Solitude* and *Count Me In: How I Stepped Off the Sidelines, Created Connection, and Built a Fuller, Richer, More Lived-in Life*.
She shares her journey from isolation to connection, offering practical advice on how to find your tribe and build meaningful relationships. Emily dives into the nuances between loneliness and depression, explaining how 'social depression' can lift when we engage with others. She emphasizes that belonging doesn't happen overnight—it takes effort and time. From the importance of public spaces to the role of religion in creating community, Emily covers a range of strategies to combat loneliness.
One standout moment is Emily's discussion on Haggerty's rule, a principle that can guide us in forming deeper connections. She also encourages listeners to step out of their comfort zones and try new activities as a way to meet people and find a sense of belonging. If you've ever felt like you're on the sidelines of life, this episode offers hope and actionable steps to help you create a richer, more connected existence.
Tune in to hear Emily's insights and start your journey toward a more fulfilling social life.