Heather Ross
Heather Ross
EP115 Q&A Should I Kick Them Out?
EP115 Q&A Should I Kick Them Out?
EP115 Q&A Should I Kick Them Out?
Tuesday 29th April 2025
Heather Ross explores the complex question of whether to ask your child to leave home amidst addiction struggles.
27 minutes
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Family Recovery from Addiction
Sobriety Toolkit
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
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Episode Overview
- Consider the role of stable housing in recovery.
- Prioritise safety for everyone involved.
- Reflect on emotional health impacts within the home.
- Make decisions based on values, not pressure.
- Transition thoughtfully if asking them to leave.
"You can say no with love and it doesn't have to hurt anybody."
In this episode of 'Living With Your Child's Addiction', Heather Ross tackles the challenging question that haunts many parents: "Should I kick them out?" Heather shares her personal journey, having faced similar dilemmas with her own daughter, Helena. She emphasises the complexity of this decision, urging parents to move beyond outdated notions like 'tough love' and 'rock bottom'. Heather encourages a compassionate approach, focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.
She highlights the importance of stable housing as part of 'recovery capital' and stresses that decisions should be made with careful thought and consideration. Heather reflects on the societal tendency to dehumanise those struggling with addiction, sharing anecdotes from her own experiences. Her stories reveal the emotional turmoil that such decisions can bring and the lasting impact they have on families. Heather advocates for making choices rooted in love and understanding, rather than fear and stigma.
Throughout the episode, Heather provides a framework for parents to make informed decisions that align with their values and family dynamics. She discusses factors like safety, emotional health, and the well-being of all family members. Heather's approach is grounded in science and empathy, offering parents a way to support their children while maintaining their own peace of mind. By listening to Heather's insights, you'll gain a fresh perspective on handling these tough situations.
Whether you're dealing with addiction in your family or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable guidance and reassurance. So, if you're looking for a compassionate way to navigate this challenging terrain, Heather's wisdom is worth exploring.