Matt and Katie Davis

Supported Sobriety

Matt and Katie Davis

  • Ep. 63 The Pain That Heals vs. The Pain That Hurts

Ep. 63 The Pain That Heals vs. The Pain That Hurts

Tuesday 26th August 2025

Katie Davis discusses clean pain vs. dirty pain with humour and insight, offering guidance for healing from betrayal and addiction.
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Supported Sobriety
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Matt and Katie Davis
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Sobriety Toolkit
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Family Recovery from Addiction
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Healing Through Humour: Katie Davis on Clean vs. Dirty Pain

Episode Overview

  • Recognise the difference between clean pain and dirty pain.
  • Indulging in anger and blame keeps you trapped.
  • True healing comes from within, not changing others.
  • Processing deeper emotions can set you free.
  • Humour can be a powerful tool in understanding complex feelings.
"Dirty pain feels really good but has nowhere to go; clean pain helps you become better."
What drives someone to find healing in the face of betrayal? Katie Davis brings humour and insight to this episode as she shares her story of an Andes mint binge gone wrong, illustrating the difference between clean pain and dirty pain. You’ll learn how indulging in anger and blame can feel good momentarily but keeps you trapped in a cycle of hurt.
Katie explains how recognising deeper emotions can set you free, offering guidance on how to process these feelings for true healing. With anecdotes that will make you chuckle and reflections that resonate deeply, Katie shares her personal journey of finding peace and confidence despite her husband's struggles with pornography addiction. She emphasises that healing comes from within, not from changing others. Whether you're dealing with betrayal or supporting someone through addiction, this episode offers practical advice and emotional support.
It's a reminder that while dirty pain might feel productive, clean pain is what ultimately leads to growth and healing. How can embracing clean pain transform your journey?
Listen to find out!
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