Finding Strength: Miriam Lerner Reflects on Ellen Bass's Poem 'The Thing Is...'
Then you hold life like a face between your palms: a plain face, no charming smile, no violet eyes and you say: yes, I will take you, I will love you again.
Grief can be an overwhelming companion, but sometimes, words have the power to provide solace and strength. In this touching episode of 'If I Had Only...', Miriam Lerner brings us a poignant poem by Ellen Bass titled 'The Thing Is...'. This isn't just any poem—it’s one that Miriam stumbled upon in an old email, a piece that perfectly captures her current journey of living without her son Nathan.
The poem speaks to the crushing weight of grief, likening it to an 'obesity of grief' that is hard to carry. Yet, it also offers a glimmer of hope, emphasizing the choice to embrace life and find love again, even when it feels impossible. Miriam shares her personal reflections on this powerful piece, discussing how she navigates her daily struggles and finds the courage to move forward.
This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the healing power of poetry. Whether you're grappling with your own loss or seeking to understand the depths of grief, Miriam's heartfelt sharing will resonate deeply.