Benyi Johnson
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Episode 57: Boundaries
Episode 57: Boundaries
Episode 57: Boundaries
Friday 27th September 2024
Join Benyi Johnson and boundary coach Barb Nangle as they explore the importance of setting boundaries in recovery and personal relationships.
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Episode Overview
- Setting boundaries is crucial for recovery and healthy relationships.
- The 'bookending' method helps process emotions before and after setting boundaries.
- Politeness can be effective in enforcing boundaries without escalating conflict.
- Codependence often complicates boundary setting but can be managed with practice.
- Healthy boundaries lead to more fulfilling and stable relationships.
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In this episode of 'Stairway to Redemption', host Benyi Johnson finally dives into the crucial topic of boundaries, a subject that’s been a long time coming. Joining him is Barb Nangle, a boundary coach with a wealth of experience in helping people establish and maintain healthy boundaries, especially those in recovery. Barb shares her personal journey, from hitting her codependent bottom to finding solace and structure through 12-step programmes like Codependents Anonymous (Coda) and Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA).
She talks about the transformative power of setting boundaries and how it has impacted her life and relationships, including her current healthy romantic relationship, which she attributes to her boundary-setting skills. Barb also delves into practical techniques for setting boundaries, such as the concept of 'bookending'—having an accountability partner to support you before and after setting a boundary. She explains how this method can help process difficult emotions and provide the affirmation needed to stand firm.
Benyi and Barb discuss the challenges of maintaining boundaries, especially in codependent or enmeshed relationships, and the importance of being polite yet firm. The episode is filled with relatable anecdotes and practical advice that can benefit anyone struggling with addiction or those looking to improve their personal relationships. Barb's insights are not only enlightening but also actionable, making this episode a must-listen for anyone on a journey to sobriety or simply seeking healthier interactions with others.
Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to set and maintain boundaries effectively—your future self will thank you!