Episode 63: The Problem with FixingEpisode 63: The Problem with Fixing
Married to Addiction
Julie Sanford discusses why trying to fix your husband's addiction can be harmful and offers healthier alternatives.
13:54•19 Jan 2023
Why Fixing Your Husband's Addiction Might Be Doing More Harm Than Good
“The problem with enabling, of course, is that that removes the consequences of their choices, so they don't experience pain from them.”
Have you ever found yourself stepping into the role of 'fixer' when your husband’s drinking spirals out of control? Julie Sanford, the host of 'Married to Addiction', knows this scenario all too well. In this eye-opening episode, she shares her personal journey of trying to fix her husband's addiction and the unexpected consequences that followed. Julie reveals how her well-intentioned efforts to help often backfired, causing more harm than good for both her and her husband.
She unpacks the common pitfalls of enabling behavior and explains why it's crucial to let go of the urge to fix. Instead, Julie offers practical advice on how to genuinely support your spouse while also taking care of yourself. From setting healthy boundaries to seeking spiritual guidance, this episode is packed with insights that will resonate deeply with anyone navigating a loved one’s addiction.
Julie’s candid storytelling and compassionate advice provide a beacon of hope for wives feeling overwhelmed by their husband’s drinking. Tune in to discover how you can stop fixing and start fostering a healthier environment for both you and your partner.

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