Explaining and Other Subtle Forms of ControlExplaining and Other Subtle Forms of Control
Inner Bonding
What happens when you try to explain yourself to someone who is attacking and blaming you? Do you believe that explaining and defending will convince the other person to see things your way? Has this ever worked out well? Speaking with child-like swe...
30:30•22 May 2023
Recognising Hidden Control Tactics in Relationships with Dr. Margaret Paul
Episode Overview
- Subtle forms of control in relationships are often harder to recognize than overt forms such as anger and blame.
- Explaining and defending in conflicts may actually be subtle forms of control, leading to resistance and conflict escalation.
- Childlike sweetness and whining can also be subtle methods of control, influencing how others respond and engage.
- Recognising and disengaging from controlling behaviours can lead to more open, loving, and transformative conversations.
- Understanding and healing relationship dynamics through the Inner Bonding® self-healing process can lead to profound personal and relational growth.
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Ever tried to explain yourself to someone who's blaming you, only to feel like you're hitting a brick wall? In this episode of the 'Inner Bonding' podcast, Dr. Margaret Paul uncovers the subtle ways we try to control others without even realising it. From defending your actions to using a sweet, childlike tone, these tactics often backfire, leading to more conflict rather than resolution. Through relatable client stories, Dr. Paul highlights how these behaviours create resistance and prevent genuine connection.
She offers a fresh perspective on communication, urging listeners to step away from control and embrace self-compassion instead. By adopting the Inner Bonding® self-healing process, you can transform your approach to resolving conflicts and build healthier, more loving relationships. Dr. Paul's insights provide a roadmap for understanding and healing relationship dynamics, making this episode a must-listen for anyone eager to improve their connections with others.
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