Brianne Davis

Secret Life

Brianne Davis

  • Future Faking: How “Someday” Becomes a Weapon

Future Faking: How “Someday” Becomes a Weapon

Monday 8th December 2025

Explore the toxic tactic of future faking with Brianne Davis-Gantt. Learn to spot the signs and protect yourself from emotional manipulation.
Explicit
13 minutes
Informative
Inspiring
Honest
Engaging
Eye-opening

About this podcast

Secret Life
Author:
Brianne Davis
Overview:
Categories:
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Healing Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Sobriety Success Stories
Relationships & Community
Links:
Visit site
Rounded Button Dark
Do you want to link to this podcast?
Get the buttons here!

Unmasking Future Faking: When Promises Become Weapons

Episode Overview

  • Future faking involves making false promises about the future to control partners.
  • Key red flag: Words do not align with actions.
  • Effective communication is crucial in addressing future faking.
  • Setting clear boundaries can help prevent manipulation.
  • Seeking external support may be necessary for dealing with persistent future faking.
"The most significant red flag with this type of pattern is where the partner's words do not align with the action."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? In this captivating episode of Secret Life, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the manipulative tactic known as 'future faking.' This intriguing concept involves making grandiose promises about the future with no intention of following through, often seen in toxic relationships. Brianne breaks down how this behaviour is used to control and manipulate partners, creating a false sense of hope while keeping them emotionally invested.
With her signature blend of candour and humour, Brianne shares relatable anecdotes and practical examples, highlighting the key characteristics of future faking, such as the glaring red flag of words not matching actions. You'll hear about everything from grand bathroom remodels that never happen to dream vacations that remain just that—dreams. By exploring this topic, Brianne provides listeners with valuable tools to identify and address future faking in their own lives.
The episode is packed with insights on how to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and seek support when needed. So, if you're ready to learn how to spot the signs of future faking and protect yourself from emotional manipulation, this episode is a must-listen. Are you ready to take control of your future and stop living in false promises?
alcoholfree.com
Published by The Mindful Drinking Company Limited
4 Providence Court, Pynes Hill, Exeter, Devon, EX2 5JL, England
Registered in England and Wales.
Company Number: 1195057. Vat Number: GB320915135.
Registered address as above.
© Copyright 2005-2025 The Mindful Drinking Company Limited.
All Rights Reserved.
alcoholfree.com is a participant in the Amazon Associates Programme, an affiliate advertising programme designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.co.uk. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases.