How Do I Set Boundaries without Making My Loved One Angry?How Do I Set Boundaries without Making My Loved One Angry?
Coming Up for Air — Families Speak to Families about Addiction
Learn how to set boundaries with loved ones struggling with addiction without causing anger.
21:35•9 Jun 2023
Mastering Boundaries: Talking to Loved Ones About Addiction
Episode Overview
- Timing is crucial when discussing boundaries with your loved one.
- Practicing communication skills is essential for effective conversation.
- Anticipate resistance and plan how to handle pushback.
- Self-soothing and self-care can help in handling intense feelings.
- Craft communication skills focus on personal growth and understanding.
“Craft communication skills are about learning how you can be more compassionate, caring, and understanding. Not that your loved one is going to become more, better conversational. You are. It's all about you.”
Ever struggled with setting boundaries without sparking anger? In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Laurie McDougall, Kayla Solomon, and Dominique Simone Levine dive into this tricky subject. They share practical advice on how to approach tough conversations with loved ones battling addiction. Timing is key, they say. Knowing when your loved one is most receptive can make all the difference. The hosts also stress the importance of self-awareness.
Recognizing your own emotions and staying calm can help you communicate more effectively, even when things get heated. They offer tips on self-soothing and self-care, acknowledging the anxiety and fear that often accompany these discussions. But it’s not just about managing your loved one’s reactions. This episode emphasizes personal growth and understanding. By focusing on improving your own communication skills, you can foster a more compassionate and caring relationship, regardless of whether your loved one changes their behavior.
If you’re looking for support and guidance on how to navigate these challenging conversations, this episode is packed with valuable insights and strategies.

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