Narcissistic GrandparentsNarcissistic Grandparents
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug discusses dealing with narcissistic grandparents and offers tips on protecting your kids and setting boundaries.
3:57•19 Jul 2020
Narcissistic Grandparents: Navigating Family Ties and Protecting Your Kids
“Narcissistic grandmothers have zero trouble criticizing their children to their grandchildren. This not only can affect how your child sees you, but it also can affect your relationship with your child negatively and hurt your child.”
Ever found yourself wondering how to deal with a grandparent who seems to have a knack for causing family drama? In this episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into the unsettling world of narcissistic grandparents. She shares her personal story of growing up with a narcissistic grandmother and the ripple effects it had on her relationship with her mother. This isn't just a tale of family friction; it's a candid look at how these dynamics can impact your kids too.
Narcissistic grandparents often undermine parents by criticizing them to their grandchildren, which can seriously mess with a child's view of their parent. They also tend to ignore boundaries and rules, teaching kids to do the same. If this sounds familiar, Cynthia offers practical advice on setting boundaries and even considering no contact if things get too toxic.
She stresses the importance of talking to your children about abusive behavior and making sure they know they can always come to you for help. Above all, keeping your children safe is paramount, so never leave them alone with a narcissistic grandparent. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with this tricky family issue, providing both empathy and actionable steps to protect your family's well-being.

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