Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Simple Answers Are The Best (Especially With Narcissists)
Simple Answers Are The Best (Especially With Narcissists)
Simple Answers Are The Best (Especially With Narcissists)
Thursday 23rd July 2020
Learn why simple answers work best with narcissists. Cynthia Bailey-Rug shares practical tips to protect yourself from manipulative behavior.
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Anything more than that comes from the evil one.
Ever wondered why you feel the need to over-explain yourself, especially around certain people? Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into this very issue in her podcast episode, shedding light on why simple answers are your best defense against narcissists. Many of us, particularly those who grew up with narcissistic parents, have a habit of over-explaining. Cynthia explains that this behavior is often rooted in fear—fear of upsetting someone who thrives on control and manipulation.
Cynthia draws wisdom from the Bible, quoting Matthew: 'let your statement be yes, yes or no. Anything more than that comes from the evil'. She explains that mentally healthy people accept straightforward answers, while narcissists push for more details to exert control. To illustrate, Cynthia shares a personal story involving her covertly narcissistic mother-in-law. When asked to do something on a specific day, Cynthia simply said no.
A healthy person would have accepted this, but her mother-in-law demanded a detailed explanation, aiming to guilt-trip her. This episode is packed with practical advice on how to protect yourself from such toxic behavior. Cynthia suggests using the reaction of the person as a gauge: if they accept a simple answer, they are likely safe; if they demand more, they might not be. This simple yet powerful strategy can help you maintain your peace and sanity in interactions with narcissists.
For anyone struggling with narcissistic relationships, this episode offers a lifeline of practical wisdom. Cynthia’s blend of personal experience and biblical insight makes her advice both relatable and actionable. Tune in to discover how simple answers can be your shield against manipulation.