Sleep Is a Gift: The Faith Science of Rest
Sleep Is a Gift: The Faith Science of Rest

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Tanya Gioia talks with Dr Benjamin Long about how sleep, faith and recovery intersect, especially for those lying awake with worries about addiction. They discuss biblical perspectives on insomnia, practical sleep strategies and how sleepless nights can become an opportunity to trust God more deeply.

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49:30•19 Jun 2026

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Sleep Is a Gift: Faith, Insomnia and Recovery with Dr Benjamin Long

Episode Overview

Sleep is portrayed in Scripture, especially Psalm 127, as a gift from God that challenges hustle culture and the “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” mindset.
Many Christians separate their faith from how they handle insomnia; bringing sleeplessness honestly to God can shift the whole experience.
The Psalms model a long journey from tears on the bed to joy on the bed, showing that trust in God during sleepless seasons develops over time.
Dr Long’s five “sleepless night rules” combine cognitive behavioural sleep strategies with practices of prayer and connection with God.
Caring for someone in addiction includes noticing how their behaviour affects your rest and allowing God’s care to extend to your sleep as well.

“Sleep is a gift from God. I can think that, but actually believing it and letting it sink into my heart—that God wants to give me sleep—that’s different.”

How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? This conversation between host Tanya Gioia and sleep physician–theologian Dr Benjamin Long offers a surprising answer: through sleep, or more accurately, through sleepless nights. Aimed at Christian women and families affected by addiction, the chat blends practical sleep science with rich biblical reflection.

Dr Long shares how, during his sleep medicine training, he noticed a gap: many patients said faith mattered to them, yet “so often their faith didn’t come into how they responded to sleeplessness.” That gap sparked his work connecting insomnia, Scripture and recovery. You’ll hear about hustle culture, productivity and why so many people say, “I’ll sleep when I’m dead,” even as their bodies and relationships fall apart.

Dr Long contrasts that with Psalm 127, where sleep is framed as “a gift God gives His beloved,” and with Psalms that move from “flooding their couch with tears” to “I sing for joy on my bed.” It’s not a quick fix, but a long, honest journey with God. For those lying awake worrying about a loved one’s addiction, Tanya and Dr Long speak directly to the shame spiral, overthinking and fear of missing the late‑night phone call.

Instead of more pressure to “have more faith,” they talk about bringing the reality of “I can’t lay this down” straight to God, trusting His character rather than magical rituals. Dr Long also introduces his *Sleep Habits Journal* and five simple “sleepless night rules” that blend cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia with prayer and reflection.

He describes sleep as “embodied trust” — letting go for the night because “God never grows weary, never needs to sleep, and I can trust Him.” If your sobriety or your loved one’s addiction has left you exhausted, this gentle, faith-filled conversation might help you see your restless nights as an invitation instead of a failure. What might change if you treated sleep as a gift rather than another item on your to‑do list?

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