Surviving Narcissism: Kimber Foster's Journey
Episode Overview
Recognise early signs of narcissistic behaviour like love bombing and devaluation. Forgiveness is crucial, not just for others but for oneself. Setting boundaries is essential for healing and moving forward. Children can be affected by toxic relationships and mimic negative behaviours. Leaving a toxic relationship requires facing fears and embracing change.
Thank God in my hand recording, because I swear that saved me more times than I can count.
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? Kimber Foster's journey through a 27-year marriage with a narcissist is a gripping tale of survival and self-discovery. In this episode of Retrieving Sanity, host Keegan Read chats with Kimber, the author of 'The Year of Thorns,' as she shares her experience of living in a war zone of control and deceit. Kimber's story isn't just about enduring the emotional and psychological toll; it's about the resilience to reclaim her life.
She opens up about the early signs of narcissism, from love bombing to devaluation, and the gradual realisation that she needed to escape for her own survival. Kimber's candid discussion includes the impact on her children, who began mimicking their father's behaviour, and the legal complexities of divorce from a manipulative partner. She stresses the importance of forgiveness—not just for the narcissist, but for herself—for staying so long.
With light-hearted moments amidst the seriousness, Kimber reflects on setting boundaries and finding self-love, offering hope to those trapped in similar situations. Kimber's journey is a testament to the power of healing and moving forward. Her insights are not only eye-opening but also serve as a guide for others who may be questioning their own relationships. So, what would you do if you found yourself in a similar situation? Could you find the strength to leap off that rollercoaster?
Listen to Kimber's story and find out.