The Human Step (The Daily Trudge)

The Human Step (The Daily Trudge)

RAW Recovery Podcast

Dion talks through Step Ten as the "human step", using his own grumpy morning and sensitive feelings to show how daily inventory and self-restraint can shift emotions and support sobriety. The conversation blends humour, literature from AA and Al-Anon, and family reflections to highlight progress rather than perfection.

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25:046 Jun 2026

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Step Ten: The Human Step, Messy Feelings and Starting the Day Over

Episode Overview

  • Step Ten is described as the "human step", giving people in recovery room to make mistakes and then correct them.
  • Daily spot-check inventories help catch emotional disturbances early and allow the day to be "started over" as often as needed.
  • Restraint of tongue, pen, keyboard and thumbs can prevent arguments, broken relationships and long-lasting resentments.
  • Telling on yourself and admitting when you’re wrong brings freedom and can shift grumpiness or hurt feelings into relief and gratitude.
  • The focus is on progress, not perfection, using tools from AA and Al-Anon to build character and support family healing.
"There's nothing wrong with being wrong. The thing is, if you do something wrong and make it right, you're right."

What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? On RAW Recovery Podcast’s Daily Trudge, the focus turns to Step Ten – affectionately called "the human step" – and how it keeps everyday life from spiralling out of control. Host Dion speaks candidly about waking up grumpy, feeling left out of family plans, and how his PTSD and sensitivity colour his reactions.

Instead of pretending he’s above it all, he uses the exact tools he’s talking about: "Because I admitted what was wrong. That was it. That's all that needed to happen." You’ll hear how a simple Step Ten check-in shifts him from resentment and confusion to relief and gratitude. The episode weaves together an Al-Anon daily reading, the AA 12&12, and real-time emotional honesty.

Dion highlights how Step Ten is the bridge between spiritual growth and daily living: keeping an eye on both assets and liabilities, catching problem thinking early, and starting the day over as many times as needed. He jokes that 80% of the programme is "keeping your darn mouth shut", but backs it up with examples of how restraint of tongue, pen, keyboard and thumbs can save relationships and sanity.

You’ll also hear reflections on family healing, the impact of his sobriety on those around him, and the relief that comes from finally seeing long-term goals taking shape. Rather than aiming for perfection, Dion stresses "progress, not perfection" and the freedom that comes from “telling on yourself” before things blow up.

This episode speaks to anyone in recovery who has emotions that come in hot, who overthinks texts, or who wonders if they’re ever going to “get it right.” It’s messy, honest, sometimes funny, and very human – which is exactly the point of Step Ten. How often are you giving yourself permission to be wrong and then make it right?

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