Steps 8 and 9: Larry T's Guide to Making Amends in AA
There are some things that we have done that, no matter how hard we try to make amends, just doesn't erase the memory of the action.
Picture yourself sitting in a room filled with people who understand your struggles, each one on a journey to make things right. In this episode of Sober Cast, Larry T shares his insights on Steps 8 and 9 of Alcoholics Anonymous, recorded at the State-line Retreat in Primm, Nevada, back in 2010. These steps focus on identifying those we've harmed and making amends wherever possible, except when it would cause more harm.
Larry's talk is both honest and encouraging, offering a roadmap for those navigating these challenging but essential steps. Larry delves into his own experiences, recounting moments of both success and failure in making amends. He highlights the critical role of a trusted sponsor, someone who can guide you through the emotional and practical aspects of this process.
Larry also touches on the spiritual side of recovery, emphasizing that making amends isn't just about saying sorry; it's about healing and reconnecting with a higher power. The episode doesn't shy away from the tough stuff. Larry addresses the feelings of guilt and shame that often accompany the process of making amends. He acknowledges that some actions can't be undone, but stresses that the goal is progress, not perfection.
It's about taking steps towards a better self and a healthier life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone in recovery who is grappling with the idea of making amends. Larry's candid stories and practical advice offer both guidance and hope. Tune in to find out how taking these steps can transform your journey to sobriety.