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Katie Kelley reflects on addiction, divorce, autism and single motherhood, sharing how daily grace and practical support helped her keep going. The conversation centres on letting go of perfection, accepting mercy in unexpected forms, and making small choices not to quit.
33:27•8 Oct 2026
Grace Will Be There: Katie Kelley on Addiction, Autism and Single Motherhood
Episode Overview
- You don't get strength for tomorrow ahead of time; grace meets you when tomorrow becomes today.
- Practical help from friends and family—like cleaning support and childcare—can be life-saving in crisis.
- God’s mercy may mean removing you from unsafe situations, not always fixing them the way you expect.
- Letting go of the need to look like a perfect parent or spouse opens space for honesty and real support.
- Keep moving, even if it’s only crawling forward; countless tiny choices not to quit add up to survival.
“Grace covers what you cannot be prepared for. Grace will. It will be there.”
What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? This conversation on **The Call with Nancy Sabato** follows Katie Kelley as she talks honestly about living a life she never planned: single parenting six children, supporting a son with severe autism, and facing the abrupt end of a 12-year marriage due to addiction.
You’ll hear Katie explain how her husband’s addiction transformed her biggest fear—raising six children alone—into daily reality, and how she learned that "you don't receive all the grace for tomorrow today." Instead of superhuman strength, she describes grace as simply "everything you need for life and godliness" showing up right when it’s needed. The episode speaks directly to women who feel utterly worn down by crisis, addiction in the family, disability, or broken relationships.
Katie shares very practical moments of help: parents stepping in as a safety net, friends organising a "cleaning crew train" instead of a meal rota, and two friends who refused to leave even when she told them to go because she was "too embarrassed" by the chaos at home. Her stories highlight how God’s mercy can mean being taken *out* of an unsafe situation, rather than fixing it in the way you hoped.
She talks openly about her ex-husband’s addiction, her own exhaustion, and letting go of the need to look like the "impressive mum" while carrying a kicking, screaming autistic child out of public places. Along the way, Katie describes learning to spot small flashes of light in dark seasons—like taking photos of her children in beautiful light, or her 11-year-old secretly setting out cookies for Santa so younger siblings could still have Christmas magic.
If you’ve ever whispered, "God, I can't do this," and wondered whether grace will really show up for you, this episode might be the gentle reminder you need that you just have to keep moving, and let grace do the rest.

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