Bob Gardner
Bob Gardner
"What is Love? Baby, Don't Hurt Me..."
"What is Love? Baby, Don't Hurt Me..."
"What is Love? Baby, Don't Hurt Me..."
Thursday 16th September 2021
Bob Gardner redefines love, debunking societal myths and linking them to addiction in this 'Alive and Free' episode.
26 minutes
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Bob Gardner
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Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
Spiritual & Personal Growth Journeys
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
Mindful Recovery
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Get the buttons here!Rewriting Love: Unpacking the Myths and Realities with Bob Gardner
Your emotions can’t come from somebody else. And if you believe someone else is responsible for making you feel love, you can find yourself in a rabbit hole of pornography. Or other addictive behaviors.
Love. It’s a word we hear everywhere, from pop songs to Disney movies, but have you ever stopped to question what it really means? In this thought-provoking episode of 'Alive and Free', Bob Gardner takes a critical look at how society's portrayal of love can lead us down some pretty dangerous paths, including addiction. Bob argues that the mainstream idea of love—that it comes from someone else—is not only flawed but can also be harmful.
If you believe someone else is responsible for making you feel love, you might find yourself spiraling into addictive behaviors like pornography or substance abuse. Bob doesn't just critique; he offers a fresh perspective on what love truly is. He explains that real love is an internal feeling, something that comes from within rather than from external sources.
This episode challenges the fairy-tale endings we’ve come to expect from Hollywood and Disney, revealing how these portrayals often set us up for disappointment and even failure in our relationships. Listeners will find Bob's insights on 'Christian Love' particularly eye-opening. He discusses how well-meaning intentions can sometimes lead to judgment, manipulation, and even gaslighting.
But it's not all doom and gloom; Bob also introduces the 'Love Without Content' approach, which fosters a deep sense of connection even during disagreements with your spouse. This episode isn't just about debunking myths; it's about offering practical advice to avoid the pitfalls that come with misguided notions of love. Whether you’re struggling with addiction or just looking to improve your relationships, Bob's unique take on love provides valuable lessons for everyone.
Tune in to discover how redefining love can help you break free from destructive patterns and lead a more fulfilling life.