Whole Object Relations and Object ConstancyWhole Object Relations and Object Constancy
Narcissism Recovery Podcast
Yitz Epstein unpacks Whole Object Relations and Object Constancy, showing how childhood trauma impacts adult relationships in narcissistic abuse.
9:24•12 Nov 2019
Whole Object Relations: Unpacking Childhood Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse
“With object constancy, absence does not mean disappointment or abandonment, only temporary distance.”
Imagine trying to see someone as a whole person but constantly falling short. In this episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', Yitz Epstein dives into the concepts of Whole Object Relations and Object Constancy, explaining how these defense mechanisms are rooted in childhood trauma. These mechanisms often lead to difficulties in perceiving primary caregivers and later partners as complete individuals. Yitz breaks down how these early traumas can shape adult relationships, making it hard to see people in their entirety.
He doesn't just stop at explaining the problem; he offers practical tips for healing from developmental trauma. Yitz also highlights the importance of finding a therapist who truly understands unconscious trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the long-term effects of narcissistic abuse, providing both understanding and hope for recovery.

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