Why You Are Attracted to Unavailable People

Why You Are Attracted to Unavailable People

Ever wondered why you keep ending up with partners who just can't seem to commit? In this episode of the 'Inner Bonding' podcast, Dr. Margaret Paul PhD dives into the reasons behind this frustrating pattern and offers practical advice on how to break free. Dr. Paul explains that if you grew up with emotionally distant parents, you might find yourself chasing after love from people who are similarly unavailable.

It's like trying to fill a void with something that was never there to begin with. She uses a compelling example of a client trapped in a controlling relationship due to his fear of losing himself, highlighting how Inner Bonding helped him manage the pain of rejection and transform his love life. Dr. Paul emphasizes the importance of developing a loving adult self and healing fears of rejection and engulfment.

By doing so, you can start attracting partners who are emotionally available and ready for a healthy relationship. If you're tired of the same old story in your love life, this episode is a must-listen. It’s packed with insights and real-life examples that can help you understand and change your relationship patterns for the better.