Dr. Jacques de Broekert

Doc Jacques: Your Addiction Lifeguard

Dr. Jacques de Broekert

  • Why Addicts Sometimes Want to Destroy Themselves

Why Addicts Sometimes Want to Destroy Themselves

Thursday 5th March 2026

Explore why addicts sometimes self-destruct and how understanding this mindset can be a step towards change with Doc Jacques.
26 minutes
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Doc Jacques: Your Addiction Lifeguard
Author:
Dr. Jacques de Broekert
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Sobriety Toolkit
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Family Recovery from Addiction
Recovery from Trauma
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Why Addicts Self-Destruct: A Deep Dive with Doc Jacques

Episode Overview

  • Addiction often thrives on shame, not guilt.
  • The 'what's the point' moment leads to self-destruction.
  • Many addicts have a hidden desire to be saved.
  • Honesty is crucial for initiating change.
  • Letting go of past suffering can aid recovery.
"Addiction kind of runs on that shame. It's not guilt; it's shame."
What drives someone to keep digging when they're already in a hole? In this engaging episode of 'Doc Jacques: Your Addiction Lifeguard,' Dr. Jacques de Broekert unpacks the perplexing mindset that leads addicts towards self-destruction. With a mix of straight talk and humour, Dr. Jacques explores the 'what's the point' moment where hope disappears, and self-destruction seems logical.
He explains how addiction thrives on shame rather than guilt, turning 'I did something bad' into 'I am something bad.' This shift fuels a cycle where addicts often sabotage their own recovery, despite an underlying desire to be saved. Dr. Jacques shares personal anecdotes and insights from his clinical experience, highlighting the strange comfort addicts find at rock bottom, where expectations vanish, and numbness takes over. Yet, amidst the chaos, there's often a small voice hoping for intervention.
This episode is a raw and honest look at the darker truths of addiction, offering a glimmer of hope through honesty and the willingness to let go of past suffering. It’s a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of addiction or support a loved one on their journey to recovery. Are you ready to explore the hidden desire for change in the midst of self-destruction?
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