Why Chasing Goodness Keeps Us Stuck with Elise LoehnenWhy Chasing Goodness Keeps Us Stuck with Elise Loehnen
The One You Feed
Eric Zimmer discusses with Elise Loehnen why striving for goodness can keep us stuck and how embracing all aspects of ourselves leads to wholeness.
1:13:04•29 Aug 2025
Wholeness Over Goodness: A Fresh Perspective with Elise Loehnen
Episode Overview
- Chasing goodness can keep us stuck; strive for wholeness instead.
- Acknowledge all parts of yourself, even those you'd rather hide.
- Envy can be a powerful tool for understanding your true desires.
- Societal expectations often shape our personal narratives.
- Balancing feminine and masculine energies leads to a more authentic life.
“When envy is made conscious, and when we start to use it as a GPS, it's a very powerful connector to the soul.”
How do individuals turn their lives around after addiction? In this captivating episode, Eric Zimmer chats with Elise Loehnen about the intriguing concept of choosing wholeness over goodness. Elise argues that our obsession with being 'good' can actually keep us stuck, and instead, we should embrace all parts of ourselves, even those we tend to hide.
The conversation is rich with anecdotes and insights, as Elise discusses her book, 'Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness,' which explores how integrating all aspects of our personality can lead to a more fulfilling life. You'll hear about the parable of the two wolves, a metaphor for the internal battle between our 'good' and 'bad' sides, and why it's essential to acknowledge both.
The dialogue is both humorous and thought-provoking, especially when Eric and Elise delve into personal stories of envy and societal expectations. They challenge listeners to reflect on their own narratives and how these stories shape their lives. Whether you're curious about the psychological aspects of addiction recovery or seeking practical advice on living authentically, this episode offers a fresh perspective. So, are you ready to feed the whole wolf within you?
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