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#136: Why Getting Sober Feels So Overwhelming
#136: Why Getting Sober Feels So Overwhelming
#136: Why Getting Sober Feels So Overwhelming
Friday 5th December 2025
Tim Phillips explains why sobriety feels overwhelming and shares tips to tackle the 'overwhelm trap' and identity lag.
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Episode Overview
- Understanding why sobriety feels overwhelming.
- How fear of losing coping mechanisms affects recovery.
- The concept of identity lag and its impact on change.
- Importance of focusing on small, manageable steps.
- Recognising decision fatigue in early sobriety.
"Your brain takes a change that's important and meaningful and drags you into an imagined future where you're responsible for every single version of that change all at once."
Ever wondered why getting sober feels like an uphill battle before you even start? Tim Phillips unpacks the hidden reasons behind this overwhelming feeling. He explains how the fear of losing a coping mechanism and the mental fatigue of rethinking daily routines can make sobriety seem daunting. Tim's candid discussion reveals how our brains trick us into delaying change by offering temporary relief from the thought of facing the problem.
This episode dives into concepts like the 'overwhelm trap', identity lag, and decision fatigue, providing insights into why our minds resist change even when it's beneficial. Tim shares personal anecdotes about his journey, including how he dealt with health scares and dietary changes, illustrating how similar these struggles are to quitting alcohol. He emphasises that the key to overcoming overwhelm is to focus on small, manageable steps rather than getting lost in the big picture.
So, if you're feeling stuck in your journey to sobriety, this episode offers practical advice on breaking free from the cycle of overwhelm and moving towards a life you love.