Exploring Sponsorship: Myth or Reality?
Episode Overview
Questioning the reality of sponsor families in AA. Exploring the purpose and goals of sponsorship. Discussing how to choose a suitable sponsor. Reflecting on personal experiences with sponsorship. Considering whether sponsor families create division.
My sponsor’s sponsor was sponsored by so-and-so — almost like a sobriety family tree.
Have you ever wondered if the concept of 'sponsor families' in Alcoholics Anonymous is a genuine practice or just a quirky tradition? This episode of Real Recovery Talk, hosted by Tom Conrad, dives into the heart of sponsorship and its sometimes perplexing family tree-like structure. Joined by Benjamin B. and Eric, Tom explores whether these sponsor lineages are meaningful or merely a way to feel important within recovery circles.
With a blend of humour and sincerity, the trio discusses the purpose of sponsorship, how to choose a sponsor wisely, and the ultimate goal of being a sponsor. They challenge the notion of sponsorship families and ponder whether such affiliations create more division than unity. Tom, a seasoned recovering alcoholic himself, shares his journey through sponsorship, recalling times when he had multiple sponsees and how his approach has evolved over time.
Eric and Benjamin contribute their own experiences, shedding light on the balance between supporting those who are struggling with alcoholism and managing their own recovery. The conversation touches on the importance of practical experience in recovery, as outlined in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, and the necessity of prioritising those who are truly in need. It's an engaging discussion that encourages reflection on the dynamics of sponsorship and the roles we play in each other's recovery.
If you're curious about the dynamics of sponsorship or questioning the impact of sponsor families, this episode offers plenty of food for thought. Tune in to explore these ideas and perhaps gain a new perspective on your own recovery journey.