559: Big Book Study: Step 8,9,10559: Big Book Study: Step 8,9,10
Real Recovery Talk
Do you have a family member/loved one who struggles with addiction?: In today’s episode, Erik takes us through Step 8,9,10 from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Treatment Prep Guide: SoberLink: Join our Big Book...
34:24•6 Aug 2025
Steps 8, 9, 10: Transformative Actions in Recovery
Episode Overview
- Understanding the importance of making amends.
- Spiritual growth is key in recovery.
- Balancing faith with actionable steps.
- Avoiding selfishness and fear.
- Personal transformation through the 12 steps.
“We cease fighting everyone and everything. We do not tire so easily for we're not burning up energy foolishly as we did when we were trying to arrange life to suit ourselves.”
In this episode of Real Recovery Talk, Eric leads listeners through an insightful study of Steps 8, 9, and 10 from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. The discussion delves into the complexities of making amends, an essential part of the recovery process. Eric emphasizes the importance of integrity, especially when dealing with sensitive matters such as infidelity.
He highlights the need to protect others from unnecessary harm during the amends process, stressing that honesty should be tempered with consideration for others. The episode also underscores the transformative power of spiritual growth in addiction recovery. By engaging in daily meditation and prayer, individuals can connect with their Creator to seek guidance in embodying patience, tolerance, kindness, and love.
Eric shares his personal journey, noting how these spiritual practices have helped him attain a new level of self-awareness and empathy. The interplay between faith and action is a central theme, with Eric reiterating the principle that 'faith without works is dead.' He posits that true recovery requires consistent action beyond personal reflection, such as assisting others in their sobriety journey. This approach not only prevents relapse but fosters a supportive community among recovering alcoholics.
Additionally, Eric touches on the importance of avoiding selfishness, dishonesty, resentment, and fear—common pitfalls that can hinder progress. By adopting a mindset of humility and surrendering control, individuals can navigate life more efficiently and meaningfully. Listeners are encouraged to join the Big Book Study and engage with the various support resources offered by Real Recovery Talk, including free guides and a vibrant Facebook support group.
This episode serves as a testament to the power of the 12 steps in facilitating profound personal change and sustaining long-term recovery.

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