Answering Paulina’s question on how to stop beating yourself up after narcissistic abuseAnswering Paulina’s question on how to stop beating yourself up after narcissistic abuse
The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci
Adriana Bucci helps survivors of narcissistic abuse overcome self-blame and reclaim their power.
17:14•7 Feb 2024
Breaking Free: Letting Go of Self-Blame After Narcissistic Abuse
Episode Overview
- Recognise that the blame lies with the abuser, not the victim
- Process repressed emotions through journaling and self-reflection
- Understand the tactics of manipulation used by narcissists
- Reclaim personal power by acknowledging self-worth
- Embark on a journey of self-discovery and emotional healing
“You were never the issue. The abuser is the problem. You did not do anything specifically to cause this person to abuse you. Abusers abuse because they choose to be abusive.”
Ever find yourself stuck in a loop of self-blame after dealing with a narcissistic abuser? In this episode of The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci, Adriana tackles a listener's heartfelt question about how to stop beating yourself up after experiencing narcissistic abuse. She dives into the manipulative tactics used by narcissists and emphasizes that the blame should never rest on the victim's shoulders.
Adriana’s compassionate approach helps listeners recognize their inherent worth and guides them through the complex emotions tied to trauma bonds. Through practical advice and empathetic insights, she offers a roadmap to reclaiming personal power and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to heal from the scars of emotional abuse and find a path to inner peace.
Whether you’re grappling with guilt or just need a reminder that you’re not alone, Adriana’s words will resonate deeply.

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