Answering Tristan’s question: how to deal with someone who’s still brainwashed by a narcissistAnswering Tristan’s question: how to deal with someone who’s still brainwashed by a narcissist
The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci
Adriana Bucci advises on handling a loved one still influenced by a narcissist, focusing on boundaries and self-care.
15:19•31 Jan 2024
Breaking Free: Handling a Brainwashed Loved One in Narcissistic Relationships
Episode Overview
- Setting boundaries with a narcissistic family member is crucial to protect yourself and your children
- Leading by example by taking action rather than engaging in circular discussions
- Recognising enabler behaviour and its impact on toxic relationships
- Focusing on actions over words when dealing with someone brainwashed by a narcissist
- Prioritising the well-being of your children by creating a safe environment free from toxic influences
“Your main boundaries at this point will be that if your ex-stepdad is going to be at an event or in the picture for whatever reason, you and your children are not attending. End of story.”
Imagine watching someone you love remain under the influence of a narcissist, even after they've separated. In this episode of The Shiftshow with Adriana Bucci, Adriana tackles Tristan's heartfelt question about dealing with a mother who, despite divorcing her narcissistic ex-stepdad, continues to prioritize him over her family. This isn't just another Q&A session; it's the debut of the 'Dear Adriana' column, where real questions meet practical advice.
Adriana dives into the complexities of such toxic relationships, offering Tristan and listeners actionable steps to protect their well-being. She emphasizes the power of setting firm boundaries and leading by example. Rather than getting caught up in endless explanations that often fall on deaf ears, Adriana suggests focusing on actions that speak louder than words. Her advice is clear: prioritize your mental health and create a safe space for yourself and your loved ones.
If you've ever felt frustrated trying to break through to someone still ensnared by a narcissist's manipulations, this episode offers a lifeline. Adriana's empathetic yet straightforward approach provides a roadmap for navigating these challenging dynamics. Whether you're dealing with a similar situation or supporting someone who is, you'll find valuable insights to help you move forward. Tune in and discover how to reclaim your peace and protect your family from toxic influences.
Adriana's guidance is not just about surviving but thriving despite the shadows of narcissistic abuse.

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