Sara Amundson & Laurie Edmundson

Bold Beautiful Borderline

Sara Abbott, MSW, LCSW, LICSW

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Borderline Couples Questions Part II

Tuesday 22nd July 2025

Explore challenges and strategies for building trust in BPD relationships. Discover how boundaries and open dialogue foster growth.
38 minutes
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challenging
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introspective
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About this podcast

Bold Beautiful Borderline
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Sara Amundson & Laurie Edmundson
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Navigating Intimate Relationships
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Healing Relationships
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Navigating Trust in BPD Relationships

Episode Overview

  • Building trust requires ongoing effort.
  • Respecting boundaries is crucial.
  • Open relationships demand honest communication.
  • BPD adds complexity but is manageable.
  • Introspection aids personal growth.
You don't always have to have the answer right away, but if you guys are able to foster trust in your relationship, that allows you a safe space to think and be introspective.
In this episode of the Bold Beautiful Borderline podcast, host Sarah delves into the complexities of relationships where one partner has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Recorded in the candid setting of a car ride, Sarah addresses the imperfect nature of the audio, reflecting an honest and unfiltered dialogue. A central theme of the episode is the establishment of trust within relationships, particularly when one partner has BPD.
Sarah recounts a personal story from early in her relationship, illustrating how respecting boundaries laid the groundwork for trust. She emphasizes that trust-building is an ongoing process, not a one-time formula. A key takeaway is the importance of respecting boundaries without negotiation, as demonstrated on their first date when her partner accepted her choice without pressure. The episode also touches on the challenges that BPD can present in partnerships.
Sarah candidly discusses the guilt associated with BPD, acknowledging the impact it might have on a partner's quality of life. However, she reassures listeners that while BPD complicates certain aspects, it is not an insurmountable barrier to a happy relationship. Sarah highlights the importance of open communication, especially within open relationships, where transparency is vital. The ability to express anger or dissatisfaction without fear of losing the relationship is portrayed as a significant trust factor.
Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships, considering how trust can be fostered through mutual respect and understanding. Sarah invites listeners to engage with the podcast community through social media, voicemails, and Patreon for exclusive content. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that imperfections are part of life's journey, and meaningful dialogue can lead to stronger, more resilient relationships.
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