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Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships Borderlines don't value you in dating or relationships because they are insatiable and have failed at "othering". People with BPD are very (lack of) self-focused and emotionally only aware of...
29:53•8 Feb 2024
Understanding Self-Worth in BPD Relationships with A.J. Mahari
Episode Overview
- Explore the complexities of dating individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
- Understand why individuals with BPD may struggle to value their partners
- Discover how self-worth plays a crucial role in healing from BPD relationships
- Learn about the challenges faced in BPD relationships and the impact of codependency
- Gain insights into the dynamics of attachment styles and emotional turmoil in BPD relationships
“People with BPD are so self-sabotaging. They feel so unworthy. They just, they're looking and often unconsciously unaware of what they're really needing, which is to be loved more like a child in the sense of be taken care of, be looked after, be regulated, which people can't even do for them.”
Relationships can be a rollercoaster, especially when you're dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives into the heart of why people with BPD often struggle to value their partners. If you've ever felt unappreciated or confused in such a relationship, this episode offers some eye-opening insights. Mahari explains that the emotional turmoil in these relationships often stems from the internal battles faced by individuals with BPD.
They're not intentionally dismissing your worth; rather, they're grappling with their own intense feelings and unmet needs. This episode sheds light on the emotional chaos and the insatiable nature of those with BPD, helping listeners understand that the lack of genuine connection isn't a reflection of their worth. But it's not all about the struggles. Mahari emphasizes the importance of self-worth and healing for anyone involved in these challenging relationships.
She provides compassionate guidance on how to navigate the emotional ups and downs, stressing that understanding and empathy are key. Whether you're currently in a relationship with someone who has BPD or trying to move on from one, Mahari's insights can be a beacon of hope. Tune in to learn how to reclaim your sense of self and find peace amidst the chaos.
With Mahari's empathetic approach, you'll gain valuable tools to foster your own emotional wellness and build healthier relationships moving forward.
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