BPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment StylesBPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment Styles
Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A commenter on a video on my Youtube Channel (as a few have recently) asked about Attachment Style vs Codependency. It is Codependent denial to think that the trauma bond with a borderline was caused by or can be resolved by a focus on the...
52:47•20 Mar 2021
Untangling BPD Breakups: The Real Role of Codependency
“Codependency is real codependency is the explanation that fits best with how and why you get into a relationship with a person with bpd or Npd.”
Ever wondered why some relationships with individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) feel so entangled? In this episode, Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari breaks down the often misunderstood dynamics of BPD breakups. She tackles the hot topic of whether attachment styles or codependency play a bigger role in the trauma bonds that form in these intense relationships. Mahari doesn't just scratch the surface; she dives deep into why focusing solely on attachment styles can be misleading.
Instead, she shines a light on the critical role of codependency, explaining how it underpins many of the struggles faced by partners of those with BPD. But that's not all. Mahari also discusses the daunting challenges of treating both BPD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), emphasizing the importance of therapy and recovery for everyone involved. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the aftermath of a BPD relationship, offering practical insights and a compassionate approach to healing.
Whether you're dealing with childhood wounds or trying to understand the complexities of your past relationship, Mahari provides a roadmap to recovery that is both enlightening and empowering.

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