CLASSICS REVISITED: CRAFT in Romantic Partnerships, part 1CLASSICS REVISITED: CRAFT in Romantic Partnerships, part 1
Coming Up for Air — Families Speak to Families about Addiction
The episode explores how the CRAFT model can improve romantic relationships affected by addiction, focusing on communication, individuality, and caring behaviours.
33:15•20 Mar 2026
Transforming Romantic Partnerships with the CRAFT Model
Episode Overview
- Partners should communicate their needs clearly and ask for specific, manageable actions.
- Maintaining individuality is crucial in relationships affected by addiction.
- Step back to give space and avoid losing oneself in the relationship.
- Caring behaviours can reinforce positive dynamics.
- Focus on relationship dynamics rather than just the addiction.
“"Our job as loved ones is to get our own needs met."”
Ever wondered how the CRAFT model can transform romantic relationships affected by addiction? This episode of 'Coming Up for Air' tackles this very question with hosts Dominique Simone Levine, Laurie Mcdougall, and Kayla Solomon. They dive into the complexities of codependency and how partners can maintain individuality while supporting a loved one with substance use disorder. Kayla, a relationship therapist, shares her insights on differentiation and individuation, urging listeners to step back and give space in relationships.
The hosts discuss how crucial it is for partners to communicate their needs clearly and ask for specific, manageable actions from their loved ones. They highlight the importance of not losing oneself in the relationship by constantly trying to 'fix' the other person. The conversation also touches on the significance of asking for caring behaviours and how these small actions can reinforce positive relationship dynamics.
The episode offers a refreshing perspective on balancing support and self-care, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating similar challenges. What steps can you take today to ensure your needs are met in your relationship?

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