Damon – What are we deciding to do when we take Step Three?

Damon – What are we deciding to do when we take Step Three?

In this episode of SoberQ, Damon, who goes by @AlcoholicDad4 on Twitter, takes listeners on a reflective journey through Step Three of the recovery process. Damon, a year into his clean and sober journey, shares his thoughts on what it means to hand over control in Step Three, emphasising that it's not about relinquishing one's identity but rather trusting in something greater than oneself.

He candidly discusses the fear and comfort found in Steps One and Two, where scientific understanding and personal recognition lay the groundwork for change. Damon explores the emotional struggle of surrendering control, particularly as a non-religious person, and how this step was pivotal in breaking the cycle of self-reliance that led to feelings of unmanageability and despair. He shares how embracing a higher power helped him overcome the 'dry drunk' phase characterised by confusion and self-loathing.

With a touch of humour, Damon describes Step Three as an affirmation of trust, likening it to a leap of faith without the need for monk-like rituals. Listeners are invited to consider how they can embrace trust and commitment to move beyond their struggles. Damon’s journey underscores the importance of rigorous honesty and truth in learning about oneself, paving the way for Steps Four through Nine.

His story is both engaging and relatable, offering hope and insight for anyone grappling with addiction. If you're curious about how Step Three can transform your recovery journey, Damon's experiences provide a heartfelt perspective worth exploring.