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E235: Help Wanted: Why It’s Hard to Ask and Harder to Accept
E235: Help Wanted: Why It’s Hard to Ask and Harder to Accept
E235: Help Wanted: Why It’s Hard to Ask and Harder to Accept
Tuesday 15th July 2025
Matt and Steve discuss why asking for help in sobriety is tough, but accepting it can be even harder.
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Episode Overview
- Asking for help can be challenging due to pride or fear.
- Accepting support is crucial for maintaining sobriety.
- Relatable stories highlight common struggles in recovery.
- Community support plays a vital role in overcoming addiction.
- Practical advice on handling daily stresses.
"If you could get sober on your own, you wouldn't be wherever you are."
In this episode of Sober Friends, Matt and Steve tackle a topic that's a real head-scratcher for many on the path to sobriety – asking for help and accepting it. We all know that feeling when your neighbour offers to help with the garden, and you're caught between gratitude and a stubborn sense of pride.
The hosts share their own experiences, from dealing with burnout to navigating Cadillac problems, all while emphasising the importance of accepting support when it comes your way. Matt reflects on how his neighbour offered to help with yard work, sparking a conversation about the challenges of asking for assistance. Steve chimes in with stories from his own life, highlighting how accepting help has made a significant difference in managing daily stresses.
They both acknowledge that whether it's asking for help with yard work or seeking support during a relapse, it's not always easy to swallow one's pride and accept aid. Throughout the episode, the duo shares anecdotes about their journey in sobriety and the lessons they've learned along the way. They discuss how asking for help can be a daunting task, especially when fear or shame creeps in.
Yet, they remind us that accepting support can be a game-changer in maintaining sobriety. So why should you tune in? If you've ever struggled with the notion of asking for help or felt that accepting it was even harder, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice. It's an opportunity to reflect on your own experiences and perhaps find comfort in knowing you're not alone in this struggle.