Ep. 60 One Step Forward and Two Steps BackEp. 60 One Step Forward and Two Steps Back
Supported Sobriety
Matt and Katie Davis discuss the ups and downs of healing from betrayal, emphasising that setbacks are a normal part of the journey.
28:15•6 Aug 2025
Healing's Roller Coaster: Embracing Setbacks
Episode Overview
- Healing is a non-linear process; setbacks are normal.
- Expecting setbacks can make the journey less frustrating.
- Embrace the spiral staircase metaphor for personal growth.
- Recognise each setback as progress on a higher level.
- Patience and self-compassion are key in recovery.
“Healing is not a bug; it's a feature.”
In the latest episode of Supported Sobriety, hosts Matt and Katie Davis tackle the often frustrating reality of healing from betrayal. They share personal experiences and stories from members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, focusing on the non-linear nature of recovery. If you've ever felt like you're taking one step forward and two steps back, you're not alone. Healing is rarely a straight path, and understanding this can be crucial to your journey.
Katie draws on her own experience, explaining how she navigated the ups and downs of her husband's struggles with pornography addiction. The podcast offers relatable anecdotes and insights into how healing can feel like an emotional roller coaster, yet reassures that setbacks are part of the process. With examples ranging from learning a new language to weightlifting, Katie illustrates how growth often involves revisiting old challenges, each time with a new perspective.
You'll find comfort in knowing that healing is messy, but it's supposed to be that way. The episode encourages listeners to embrace the spiral staircase of healing – recognising that even if you encounter familiar triggers, you're on a higher plane each time. This journey requires patience and self-compassion, but it's one that leads to profound personal transformation.
So, if you're ready to rethink your healing process and find peace amidst chaos, this episode might just be the guide you need.

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